Wednesday, September 12, 2012
friendlationships??? yea that's what i said
SHIT im falling hard...but thats another story. todays question my brain conjured up is have you ever been in a friendlationship? Yea me neither until recently I'd never heard of it.apparently its when you have a friend of the opposite sex you've done everything with except date. for those two ppl they are everything to each other,literally cant pull away from each other if they tried and most likely they have. they're opposites who have a lot in common he's not her type and shes not his but they're perfect compliments for each other. they drive each other and are utterly fascinated by each other. but they have never tried to be in a relationship because of other lovers, schedules, their past or simply fear of actually falling in love with each other. like could it be possible that the woman/man you swore would never be your mate is possibly "the one" and they've been right there the whole time. i mean sure they said they were happy you were with someone else but even then you end in each others arms and it doesn't feel like cheating. it feels like that's where your supposed to be. at what point do you venture into the unknown and find out if its really the love you've been craving? What ifs are no fun...does your heart jump when u see their smile? Do u get happy when they text u? If you needed someone would they be there? Are they beautiful to you even at their worse? Do you wish you had more time to spend with them? Then chances are you're in love with your friendlationship
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This is Home Girl and I wanted to comment on this from experience. This is a hard one, but one with the best outcome possible. You can handle this many ways and I would definitely pick the one that feels most comfortable to you. You can (a) ignore the whole situation and let it be what it is...if you are happy in all areas and you're spending quality time together then what does a label (friends/relationship) matter? It is what it is and you have a lifetime to let it evolve. You can (b) have this person over to watch episodes of Friendzone on MTV and bring up the discussion of, "Is this Us?" and openly talk about your options, or (c) you can end the friendship without regrets because if the feelings are not reciprocated then you are just wasting your time because there is someone even better out there that does want you back. Best friend/relationships are seriously the most fulfilling relationships...you get the best of both worlds.
ReplyDeleteYea it can be a very confusing situation
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