The one that loves you or the one you love???

We've all heard the saying "never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love" and it is positively true! But what about the other side of that when someone loves you but you love someone else who may or may not have the same feelings...what do you do? The one who loves you should obviously be the first answer but what if you just can't bring yourself to be happy with them? Will it grow on you? Then there's always mr. Or ms. Almost perfect (there's just that one little thing that bugs the hell out of you) they don't love you but you are head over heels for them. I've been on both sides of the fence and I honestly can't say either way is best. You can either get stuck with someone you don't love for the rest of your life and they spend the rest of their lives miserably trying to make you happy...never gonna happen or you go and be with the one who you love and spend the rest of your life miserably trying to make them happy. Isn't there a happy medium where you love me and I love you I know some people find it but then there are some indecisive fuckers like me who aren't even looking the right direction! Smh sidebar yes I do love Freddy but we've been back and forth so many times and he's trying so hard now I feel like I'm not trying hard enough...sometimes life just gets in the way but is it for a reason?